What is The Fair Play Method?
The Fair Play Method is an approach to our parenting, partnering, and professional lives that helps couples thoughtfully rebalance the invisible labor in the home with the goal of reducing chaos, strengthening connection, and creating space for individual pursuits. Developed by Eve Rodsky, it’s a system based on the fundamental idea that everyone’s time is valuable, and that measuring time in minutes, not dollars, can elevate the way families function.
With four easy-to-follow rules, 100 household cards, and a series of conversation starters for you and your partner, Fair Play helps you prioritize what’s important to your family and who should take the lead on every chore, from laundry to homework to dinner.
Goodbye to the days of the She-Fault parent. Hello gender equity!
Why The Fair Play Method?
Why not? Seriously. Isn’t it time we started doing some things differently?
42% of women and 35% of men in 2021 say they’re burned out, compared to 32% and 28% in 2020
Mothers in paid employment are 23% more likely to experience burnout than fathers in paid employment
23% of mothers say they don’t think its possible combine motherhood and a career
An estimated 2.35 million working mothers in the US have suffered from burnout since the start of the pandemic, specifically “due to the unequal demands of home and work”
Female senior leaders are 24% more likely than their male counterparts to ensure their teams’ workload is manageable, and 60% more likely to provide emotional support to their teams
The Rules:
All Time is Created Equal
Reclaim Your Right to Be Interesting
Start Where You Are Now
Establish Your Values and Standards
The Home is The Most Important Organization
Every healthy organization has explicitly defined expectations, operates with fairness and transparency, and provides accountability and trust where each person understand their role—and others’—with clarity.
By establishing this framework in our homes, and dividing the invisible labor within the home equitably (not equally), we give partners an opportunity to build a stronger, healthier, more fun, and more respectful relationship built to last.
Learn the Fair Play System
Fair Play Coaching Package
You and your partner will work with me over the course of four 90-minute sessions to learn the Fair Play system—what it is, why it matters, and how to implement it in YOUR home. Together we will explore toxic time messages, the legacy you’d like to leave, how the Fair Play can strengthen your connection to one another, and how to establish a Minimum Standard of Care for the Conception, Planning, and Execution of all the tasks it takes to keep your home running smoothly.
Throughout our time together, I will provide worksheets, video resources, and a structure to begin creating a more equitable home. Package includes a copy of the Fair Play book, and the Fair Play cards.
Investment: $1500
Playing Fair with Fair Play Workshop
In this all-day workshop built for multiple couples, we will spend 6 hours together talking about how and why the Fair Play system works, and how it could be a game-changer in your home. Together, we will challenge the toxic time messages we’ve all been taught, explore the legacy we’d like to leave, and look for ways to set YOU up for Fair Play success. Using various learning methods (experiential learning, lecture, video, writing, and reflection)
We will examine how to establish a Minimum Standard of Care for the Conception, Planning, and Execution of all the tasks it takes to keep your home running smoothly. You will walk away feeling like you have more time , trust, and transparency in your relationship and in your lives! Workshop includes a copy of the Fair Play book, and the Fair Play cards per couple.
Investment: $250-500
Individualized options range between $170 and $200/session.
Please schedule a complementary discovery call to determine the best option for you!